love or lust

 

Love or lust.

Every human being has lust either for men or women. No matter how many lusts are contained in this body, do not use lust as an excuse for cheating on your partner. It looks stupid to make lust a big mistake in a relationship between men and women. However, Islam has taught how to prevent the increase of lust in us. There are prayers for us to practice so that we can prevent ourselves from happening like that.

Love? If it's love, he will definitely do his best and not use lust as an excuse to escape from all problems. If he wants to, he will not destroy us, even if he has love and respect for our partner, he will take care of us until a relationship is valid with the marriage contract.

Love is not a place to vent the lust of a partner. If your partner loves you because of love, your partner will not touch you and will not do things that can compromise your dignity.

 There are several characteristics that show that your partner loves you because of lust, not love:

1. Looking for you only when needed. This is because your partner is looking for you to vent his lust only.

2. Give a 'hint'. Your partner will give hints by holding hands, touching your limbs lightly.

3. Forcing. A partner who only thinks about lust, will force you to do the damn thing. This will initially start with good persuasion but when rejected your partner will get angry and start forcing you.

 

 WARNING. If your partner has done that, quickly avoid or leave so that your dignity is not mortgaged to the wrong partner.