Couple Love

 Couple love

        Love. Love is a positive trait that everyone has. Love cannot be seen with the naked eye but can be felt with the heart and can be expressed by the loving behavior we do towards our partner. Love and affection are also natural qualities that have been instilled in us since birth. All people or more precisely all living beings deserve love for the people around us and also our partner. But do people know how to appreciate that priceless feeling of love. This is because we have received the expression that love is blind, which means that we become stupid after getting human love that is not eternal. In addition, in today's age, not everyone can appreciate love and use the love that has been given.

It's just whether it's right or wrong to love and care for our partner who will be our life partner forever.

Philophobia

Philophobia is a phobia that means that a person is afraid of falling in love again with a new person.

Causes of Philophobia.

This is because of the effects of the past or the trauma that he has faced so that he is afraid to continue the romance phase. It is true that not all human beings behave the same but we also have to remember that not all human beings can accept and forget loved things that need to be thrown away.

Treatment Philophobia

There are several ways for philophobia to make a love again. Among them are such as:

1. Forgive yourself

The right move to break away from the past. This is why most people are afraid to fall in love again because of old memories and mistakes that have silenced us for a long time. Forgive yourself for the past that has become a dark memory and continue living with 1001 lives.

2. Learn from mistakes

Indeed, the past is the best lesson in our lives. It's okay if you've done something wrong. All humans will make mistakes. But take a lesson from what has been done and do not repeat the time of romance to come.

3. Open the circle of friends

People who are experiencing philophobia often stay away from all people of the opposite sex. Therefore, to feel new love, open the circle of friends. Open your heart to our friends of the opposite sex to feel genuine love from us.

4. Make love.

There is no need to rush to find a life partner. Take as much time as possible until you are completely confident about opening up. By not putting high hopes on your next love and trusting your partner. Open your heart slowly.